Are You With a Sociopath Or Someone With
Narcissism?
By Sandra
L. Brown
As a psychotherapist, I see more people come
in for counseling related to people in their lives who are a sociopath or
who have narcissism than almost any other reason. Why?
Both of these disorders are related to a permanent
disorder which we call psychopathy. Sociopaths and Narcissistic Personality
Disorder are both personality disorders that form when the person is under
the age of seven. Unfortunately, there is no going back and reforming a
sociopaths personality formation or structure. Likewise, narcissism
can not be reversed either. People come into counseling frustrated and wondering
why the sociopath or the narcissist doesnt change or
grow or take responsibility for their
decisions.
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Breaking up with a sociopath narcissist? Be prepared for the battle
of your life! While you are an emotional basketcase, he is as Cold as Ice!
While you are left holding down the fort and dealing with the real-life
responsibilities, he walks away from everything leaving you to mop off
his stage and pay his bills. He will punish you in ways you couldn't possibly
have ever imagined...
....and not
even acknowledge it to himself! Why? Because he's off charming the socks
off of new women as if your years together didn't even
exist!
The sociopathic
narcissistic ex continually acts in abusive, bewildering and confusing
ways. He is not above committing destructive acts. When the breakup
becomes a reality, it is likely that his 'false persona' will completely
disappear all together and you will most likely experience the most hurtful
of behavior from him. He is completely lacking in empathy, and - since he
is not receiving any admiration from you anymore - he will dismiss you
and discard you as worthless to him, consequently dropping any fake
front that he use to put up in order to keep you in the relationship.
Click here to read 'The Counterfeit
Heart: Breaking Up With a Narcissist - the Sociopath in Your Life' by
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People are damaged in relationships with someone
who is a sociopath or someone with narcissism. Thats because pathology
means that someone with these kinds of disorders cannot change, grow
or develop insight about how their behaviors affect others. Therefore,
counseling or medication cannot help a sociopath or a narcissist that cannot
grow, change, or develop insight. The damage to others is in
the waiting
waiting for the sociopath to step up to the plateto
go to counseling, to change, to stop conning. But it never happens. And 10
years down the road, the person is finally starting to get it that the sociopath
cant change. Or in narcissism, there is not change.
Part of the work I do is in Public Psychopathy
Educationwhich is to help the public learn to spot psychopathy and
permanent disorders in others. You cant avoid what you dont know
about. Please educate yourself on dangerous and permanent disorders. Stop
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