Subtle Sociopaths - 9 Signs Your Partner
May Be Sociopathic
By Shannon
E Cook
Sociopaths and psychopaths (many use the term
interchangeably) often bring to mind visions of a serial killer or otherwise
violent and deadly predator. While many people in that category may be
sociopathic, there is also a segment of the population that harbors similar
mental wiring, but does not have the homicidal tendencies that lead to such
extreme behaviors. However, this does not mean that such a sociopath does
not cause a great deal of hurt, destruction, and bewilderment for those who
are close to that individual. While only a licensed mental health professional
can diagnose a sociopath, it is helpful to know signs to look for. Here are
9 indicators that your partner may be a sociopath or psychopath:
1. Lack of guilt or remorse. A sociopath may
be very upset about being caught for doing something hurtful or wrong, but
the genuine emotion, the conscience most of us take for granted, is absent.
Your partner may express disdain for the victim and actually believe that
the victim deserved to be hurt for being "weak."
2. Grandiose self worth. Your partner may feel
superior to other human beings and expect to be treated as such.
3. Poor behavioral control and impulsive action.
Your partner may have trouble delaying gratification and have a tendency
toward compulsive behavior such as drug and alcohol abuse, and sexual
promiscuity.
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becomes a reality, it is likely that his 'false persona' will completely
disappear all together and you will most likely experience the most hurtful
of behavior from him. He is completely lacking in empathy, and - since he
is not receiving any admiration from you anymore - he will dismiss you
and discard you as worthless to him, consequently dropping any fake
front that he use to put up in order to keep you in the relationship.
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4. Tendency toward boredom and risky activities.
Your partner may seek excessive stimuli and engage in risk taking behavior,
regardless of the consequence to self or others.
5. Tendency toward violent behavior. Many sociopaths
exhibit aggressive tendencies, as evidenced by fistfights or other forms
of violence.
6. Conning and manipulativeness, compulsive
lying. Your partner may lie compulsively, or keep a parasitic lifestyle,
willing to con others out of resources for their benefit.
7. Failure to conform to social norms. Your
partner may feel as if the rules and laws of society do not really apply
to him or her, and behave as such.
8. Shallow emotional depth and superficial charm.
Your partner may ooze charisma and be able to motivate people easily, but
underneath the charm there is little emotional depth.
9. Consistent display of irresponsibility. Your
partner may have difficulty holding a steady job, paying bills on time, or
otherwise honor commitments, including marital or relationship
commitments.
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